Why can’t I get the grade like they do ? Do you often ask this question to yourself ? Well, if you do then please stop it. You are judging yourself. You are comparing yourself to someone who don’t have the same value or view of life like you.
You are worth it. You are enough. Comparing yourself to others just make the same damage mentally as how as breaking the bone physically and suffer the pain for longest time till it heals. What defines you never defines the others. Similarly what’s odd about you never match others. You are you that’s what makes the best thing about you.
We human all are unique in our own ways and embrace it rather than comparing it and bashing out each other just makes everything bad. We all have self talk which we hear time to time. It can be bad or goof depends how you view yourself. Most importantly, its all about our mind. What we feed our mind that’s what most the time turns as inner voice of ourselves.
Changing mind set towards open mind rather than being limited thinking does helps to have good self talk. Limited thinking is all about the things that you said to yourself that you can’t do it or saying no before even giving a try. It’s all starts from one step forward to make it happen. Perfectionism is another bad habit which will result to self talk. To stop this we have to just accept a person as how as they are rather than trying to change them.
Feelings and thoughts are not always reality. Look more into the matter to make it happen rather than putting emotions in it. Most of the problems will be solve if we balance out our emotions and put it in check to not mixing it with everything. The more we learn about ourselves the more the reality becomes balance and work out finely.
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